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Je n'ai rien oublié
09 October 2010
i vowed that when i got married that neither me nor my husband and most definitely none of my children should go to bed angry at one another or say anything to each other in the state of anger.
nah i'm not like in this gurly fantasy of marriage..
i was just doing some deep thinking.
you know how the saying goes, 'the power of life and death is in the tongue'
it is so true. it's more likely one remembers what words hurt you rather than the physical hurt.
and it's always the case that the most hurtful words are spouted out in the surge of anger and frustration.
and regardless of the copious amount of apologies the memory of the hurt that the words caused would most likely not go away.
and i also believe that family members or bestfriends or boy/girfriends shouldn't walk away angry or sleep angry and the other party cause you never know what would happen the next moment. Like if you were out and you got angry with your boyfriend and stormed off and he chased after he but got hit by a car and died.. you'd never be able to forgive yourself or forget how stupid it was to walk away angry and having said something hurtful just before something dreadful like that happens.
nah i'm not like in this gurly fantasy of marriage..
i was just doing some deep thinking.
you know how the saying goes, 'the power of life and death is in the tongue'
it is so true. it's more likely one remembers what words hurt you rather than the physical hurt.
and it's always the case that the most hurtful words are spouted out in the surge of anger and frustration.
and regardless of the copious amount of apologies the memory of the hurt that the words caused would most likely not go away.
and i also believe that family members or bestfriends or boy/girfriends shouldn't walk away angry or sleep angry and the other party cause you never know what would happen the next moment. Like if you were out and you got angry with your boyfriend and stormed off and he chased after he but got hit by a car and died.. you'd never be able to forgive yourself or forget how stupid it was to walk away angry and having said something hurtful just before something dreadful like that happens.
well so in conclusion. don't say stuff in the spur of moment when you're angry and always make sure before the day's over.. try and sort out the issue as best you can. You'd save yourself from regretting after it's too late to take those words back and you'd save the other party from bearing grudges or worse.. resorting to hating you.